Physically moved on, emotionally stuck: 41M trying to heal from years of covert narcissistic abuse + trauma bond.
This is a safe place for people who suffered, or are currently suffering from narcissistic abuse to seek support, learn, vent, discuss, document their abuse, and come together in their path towards healing. Please read the community guidelines, and show respect and kindness to each other.Life after 40 is amazing and only getting better

Welcome to 40something. As the sub continues to grow our mod team remains focused on making this an inclusive and positive space for our members. Stay groovy!
Life after 40 is amazing and only getting better

Welcome to 40something. As the sub continues to grow our mod team remains focused on making this an inclusive and positive space for our members. Stay groovy!
The hypocrisy!

"Are We Dating The Same Guy" - is a FB group created with the purpose: "To keep women safe." However 98%+ of the posts are women who doxx, cyberstalk and shame men, often after being rejected. Since the group is private and women can post anonymously, the stories are often exaggerated and one sided- the true goal is to harm men. The group is dehumanizing, as men aren't able to reply to the opinions of rejected women. Dangerous men should be exposed! But a one-sided revenge/gossip group is toxic.
Still trying to figure out what I did wrong.

"Are We Dating The Same Guy" - is a FB group created with the purpose: "To keep women safe." However 98%+ of the posts are women who doxx, cyberstalk and shame men, often after being rejected. Since the group is private and women can post anonymously, the stories are often exaggerated and one sided- the true goal is to harm men. The group is dehumanizing, as men aren't able to reply to the opinions of rejected women. Dangerous men should be exposed! But a one-sided revenge/gossip group is toxic.